My name is Malarie. I share my small-town life with four of my favorite people in the world – my husband and three children. I’m on a mission to prove that joy, adventure, and fun are available every day when we intentionally pursue it.

Sound a little cheesy? I know. But I’ve found it’s too easy to live half-heartedly and let the moments pass by without a thought.

I worked full time outside the home for many years and came home every night to my second job of motherhood. Now, I take care of my family full time and work part time from home. I find that no matter what stage of life, my days fill up fast. It’s all too easy to get caught up in a whirlwind of little tasks, only to realize at the end of the week that I didn’t make time for or progress in the most important relationships of life.

• We didn’t have a family night.
• I didn’t play with my kids.
• I didn’t call my mom.
• My husband and I never had a significant conversation.
• I didn’t pray.

But I want more out of life. I want more for my children. There’s enough pain and heartache in this world as it is. I want to soak up as much joy as possible. Maybe you feel the same way.

To make space for what’s important

But this can’t be done passively. We find power to embrace the best of life through intentional living. We must purposefully make space in our minds, calendars, and homes for our biggest priorities, like faith and relationships.

Sometimes that means planning fun weekend activities just for the kids, date nights with my husband, or get-togethers with other family and friends. These activities show those we love they are worth our time, give us a chance to bond, and foster positive memories.

Sometimes making space for priorities means teaching my kids the importance of mundane daily tasks, like household chores and homework. Maybe we can even make them more bearable or, dare I say, denjoyable.

Sometimes it means getting away from everyone to rest, recharge, and reconnect with my God, as well as my own thoughts and emotions. Because I can’t serve others and enjoy life when my battery is low.

To make an impact

I used to think I could fly by the seat of my pants – live every day spontaneously. Having a family of my own was my turning point. I realized that if I wanted to be a positive role model and a significant part of my children’s development, I had to be intentional. And, if I wanted to keep relationships with friends and family intact, it would take effort. 

They are worth it. 

At the end of my life, I want to leave my children with an inheritance of love, faith, and positive memories. With that goal in mind each day, I stay in constant pursuit of fun on purpose. Won’t you join me?