Can everyone please stop telling women to practice “self-care” with pedicures, candles, and bubble baths? The phrase “self-care” used to make my eyes roll. I couldn’t help it. The term conjured images of spa days, long bath soaks, freshly manicured nails, and other “treats” that are supposed to make us feel better. How often are these ideas promoted by companies trying to sell another beauty treatment or experience? When time and money are scarce, they all feel like a waste…